Sore Back and Sour Grass

I looked out the French doors to see Samantha Jo perched on the small round table in the yard. We caught eyes and she gave me a slow blink, beaconing me to come out and play, but play was not possible for me. After toting Samantha to the vet three times within ten days for a corneal ulcer (she’s now healed), the right side of my back under the ribs became sore. I quelled the pain with arnica gel and continued with usual activities over the following few days without too much discomfort—until trash pick-up day. As I pulled my large, full recycle bin to the curb, it went over a rock that caused the bin to teeter, pulling me along with it. I managed to stop the bin from toppling, and was relieved to have diverted a mess of recyclables all over the walkway.

But by 3:00 that Friday afternoon, I got up from my desk to make a cup of tea and a spasm fired through my back. After a few more painful spasms, I realized my back got the brunt of the recycle bin spill recovery. I took a prescription Motrin, put an icepack on my back, and kept on working. I managed to get through the weekend with minimal pain, but by Tuesday the spasms became frequent, and at times, debilitating.

Finally, by Saturday morning, I felt some relief. Icing, Motrin, and minimizing activity were helping. I started wearing a back brace that I’d worn years ago after a car accident and luckily, still had buried in my sock drawer. Thank you to friend Alisa for suggesting I wear a back brace. Its support of the inflamed muscles reduced pain, allowing easier mobility.

Feeling confident that I could walk the distance to Samantha, I opened the French doors and stepped onto the porch. After slowly walking towards my girl, I eased myself into the chair next to the table where Samantha remained perched. The yard was vibrant with lemon clovers. The yellow flowers looked happy with their petals wide open, facing the sun. The scene made me reflect on a time in childhood, when I would eat the stems of lemon clovers, which I knew as sour grass because of the taste. I picked one of the yellow flowers and taunted Samantha by grazing it across the table. She pawed at the stem as I pulled it away then brought it back to her face. She wacked at it a few times, but this wasn’t the same as chasing me around the yard. She quickly became uninterested.I picked another flower and wondered if I would still enjoy the sour taste after all these decades. Being a curious cat lady, I couldn’t just wonder. I bit the stem. The savory flavor took me back to being a kid again, hanging out in a neighborhood field with my brother Jeff, eating sour grass.

Samantha didn’t know what she was missing.In the photo below, I captured Lexington lounging in the lemon clovers. Now he lives on in my book, Two Cats, a Mermaid and the Disappearing Moon, which is now sold at Little Freebirds, a charming children’s boutique in Laguna Beach!

Cat Lady’s New Title

Cat Lady life has been expanding with new adventures lately. My book has brought about some rewarding speaking engagements. My passion for music lead to a friendship that blossomed into romance and a once-a-month radio show co-hosting gig! Every second Sunday of the month from 3:00 to 5:00 pm, I share music and banter over the airwaves with DJ John Ford on KXFM’s radio show, AM Radio (AM for Americana Music). Tune your dial to 104.7 if you’re local, listen online or tell Alexa to play KXFM 104.7.

On November 20th, we celebrated Samantha Jo’s fifth birthday, which translates to 36 human years. She was born into the Alpha Generation, yet the identifier is based on the Greek alphabet, not domineering and assertive characteristics. Nevertheless—she’s still Queen Sassy Pants.

And while commercialism has pushed Christmas upon us in November, I’m living in the moment and embracing autumn and the Thanksgiving holiday season. I adore my orange twinkle lights in the yard and festive fall décor in the cottage, and Samantha fits right in with the orange accents.

Although, last week I had to put my inner Grinch aside for The Blue Bell Foundation for Cats. It’s that time of year again for The Sawdust Festival’s Winter Fantasy. Blue Bell, among several nonprofits, was selected to decorate a Christmas tree in Santa’s Village at The Winter Fantasy. I was on the Christmas tree decorating committee with Blue Bell staff, Jenna and Leesa, and volunteer Terri.

In preparation for the Winter Fantasy opening last Friday, we strategically hung our very own handcrafted ornaments, carefully curating our “Santa Claws” themed Christmas tree.

Our committee attended the tree lighting ceremony along with spouses, and with me, John, my new beau. As John and I took in the bustling scene and marveled at the adorable Blue Bell tree, a boy about five years old took an ornament off the tree and began stuffing it into the tiny stocking hung behind it. The ornament was a round clear disc with a photo of a Blue Bell cat displayed from inside, and holiday embellishments on the exterior, including a name tag for the kitty. His mother stood by and watched as her kid vandalized our ornament—that is, until I stepped in. 

I took the ornament out of his hand and firmly told him that we worked hard on decorating the tree and making the ornaments, and they were not to be touched. His mother looked at me, speechless, then quickly ushered her kid away from the tree. After the tree lighting ceremony, while still gathered around our Christmas tree, I told the group about the little ornament vandal. Within moments of our collective expression of irritation, a middle-aged woman approached the tree and attempted to rearrange the kitty reindeers pulling Santa Claws’s sleigh.

I marched over to her and lectured about how hard we worked on getting the placement just right and (once again) the ornaments are not to be touched! Despite dealing with ill-mannered festivalgoers, it was a glorious evening. Blue Bell even won the Cutest Tree Award.

We were about to call it a night when teenage boys came tearing through the grounds and grabbed one of the presents under our tree and started to run off with it. John and I told him to put the present back. The kid looked at me and snidely said that his name was on it. “PUT. THE PRESENT. BACK!” I yelled.

He begrudgingly obeyed then ran off.

And that’s when I was awarded the title, Tree Police.You got that right. Nobody messes with the Blue Bell tree!

 

Reflections

For who knows how my love grows?
And who knows where the time goes
?”

Lyrics from “Who Knows Where the Time Goes”
By Sandy Denny, sung by Eva Cassidy

I’m sipping my morning coffee in the cozy chair with Samantha at my feet wanting to play. It’s 6:00 a.m. and after another night of restless sleep, I only have the energy to toss a couple balls across the floor. She bats them around with a few whacks of the paw then takes off around the sofa, into the bedroom, then wizzes over to the cozy chair in a blur of orange fur. I want her energy.

As I listen to Joni Mitchell Radio on Pandora, Eva Cassidy is singing the hauntingly beautiful song, “Who Knows Where Time Goes” and I think, seriously, where does it go? One minute I’m sipping coffee and the next it’s happy hour. And how did May get here so quickly? Although it still feels like winter. I suspect the earth’s rotation has increased. The days just blur into one another.

I listen to the lyrics with Samantha softly meowing, taunting me to play. Besides evoking the contemplation of time, the song conjures reflection on my relationship with Samantha. For who knows how my love grows? It has grown over time that flies. One moment, I’m worried about Samantha’s high anxiety and if we’ll ever bond, and three years later, which happened in a flash, Samantha is confident, happy, at peace and has bonded with me. My heart swells as I look at her and smile. I toss another ball. Excitedly, she chases after it. I hope this moment lasts forever.

Enjoy some pics of my latest happenings…

My reading of Two Cats, a Mermaid and the Disappearing Moon at Laguna Art Museum

 

My gift basket silent auction donation for the Rotary Club’s Grapes for Grads fundraiser!

Samantha was the star of a promotional video for the reading, although I wasn’t able to upload the video, but here’s a snapshot! You can check it out at on Instagram, my April 26th post @catladynthecyn.

Hugs from Cat Lady and Samantha Jo!